Rod had been dating online and came across a woman named Ebony under the name of KJ. He thought he was speaking to a transgender woman. He used photos of his cousin instead of himself . When they finally met in person, Ebony was not quite happy about the truth, but then she had a bigger news to tell. She has an 11-year-old daughter and that Ebony was never a transgender, she was born a woman. But here’s the catch Rod only continued to keep in touch with Ebony online only because she was sending him money. Ebony only spoke to Rod because she thought he was gay, and she just wanted a friend. Ebony and Rod were able to move past all of the drama and decided to be “cordial” and still talked to each other even after the show.